Those Who Called Us Higher

I was sitting here thinking about all the people who have helped us along the way… Yet, some of them, we have formed a subtle indignance towards — a parent, teacher, pastor, doctor, trainer, boss, or friend — for doing so.

We have decided to be offended, instead of grateful, for their help… many of them just genuinely supporting us or calling us higher, because they love us, motivated by genuine care and concern.

I wonder how many genuine relationships we shunned because of our sensitivity towards correction.

As I age, I look back at some relationships over the decades – at some people – who I felt offended by or irrirated with because they took a genuine, healthy concern for my well-being.

Out of a desire to control my own life, yet feeling as if they were impeding upon my independence, I shook them off. Yet, later, looking back, I see that they cared more for me than those who agreed with or applauded me at the time in my childish ways.

As I age, it becomes clearer that I wasn’t always right. Like a toddler whose mother knows best yet their will and desire for independence reigns supreme, I shook off wisdom and correction that was for my own good.

Yet, as time marches on, I have come to realize that they were not trying to shut me down. They were genuinely trying to help me — to not waste my time, resources, or give away important things. I realize that there is a lot I didn’t know that they did, and they cared enough to share it.

And, as I age, instead of thinking I know everything, I gain the perspective that I simply don’t know everything and that I didn’t…

I realize that I need to open my hands to thank and hug those who helped, even when I took it as critical. I realize I need to open my heart to hear from Godly people even when its hard. I need to open my hands in generosity. I need to release my pride and receive instruction. I need to open my mind to learn more than I know. Most importantly, I need to open my hands in surrender to the Lord.

Thank you to my parents and to every teacher, pastor, doctor, trainer, boss, or friend who put yourself out there to help make me better from a heart of love and concern. In some cases, it has taken awhile for me to lower my wall and receive it, but I draw from those lessons daily — some bestowed even decades ago.

Before the World Was Plastic

Once upon a time, there was no Facebook or Twitter.
Blogs were called news, offered by professionals, and the professionals were still professional, sharing facts and balance, weighing each angle, scouring for truth for truth’s sake.

Once upon a time, people took the time to know one another, to look beyond a persona, beyond the brand, beyond what they could get out of the other.

Once upon a time, knowing a person meant more than perusing their page. It meant observing their words, expressions, gestures, and the level of their warmth, knowing they were offered just for you in that moment. It was face to face and voice to voice. And so,
in those days, we actually did know someone. Rather than being artificially intelligent, feigning knowledge, we took the time, respect, and care to learn.

In those times, it was normal to be in a room with another person having a face-to-face, audible conversation. The exchange of feelings and ideas was captured in real time without a camera for playback or for the world to see. It was just for you. People thought more of others’ feelings and more of God’s view than the perception of their brand. They feared God more than public opinion. No meant no and yes meant yes. People said what they meant and stood by what they said.

Once upon a time, truth was what actually happened, not just what you could prove by the evidence that surfaced, or opinions repurposed through varying lenses lilted for one’s benefit. In those times, people apologized face to face, not through lawyers or news outlets. And when we communicated, it was for the benefit of the reader or listener, considering their feelings rather than
just the gratification of purging our own.

But that was once upon a time – wasn’t it? – before the world became plastic and manufactured. When that time was, I do not know, yet it is worth investigating how to find it again… for there is beauty in relationship, purity in truth and welfare in empathy.

And though the world has become eroded by man, and reconstructed by artificial parts and fictitious truth, each of us is real – flesh and bone, knit together by its original creator. We are authentic beings, made in the image of a loving, living, creative God, who is love … who is truth. Inside, we have a heart, fashioned like His, made by Him, but we need help finding our way back.

Thankfully, He is here – Immanuel, God with us. Today He says, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezekiel 36:26).

God, Help us. Help me. I don’t want to be plastic or stone, artificial or fictitious. I want to be as you created me to be – full of love and truth, full of your Spirit. Help me to be as you have designed me to be, not as this plastic world has worked to fashion. I recommit myself to you today, the creator and king of the world.

Intangible Evidence

Evidence attests to, documents, supports and reinforces the validity of a claim or an assertion. Evidence verifies and confirms the validity of a proposition or a belief. Evidence is concrete. It proves a claim.

We want to see, feel, and touch evidence to believe it exists in order to believe there is a corresponding outcome. Yet, some evidence exists, is real, confirms and validates a true and actual outcome that we cannot see, feel, or touch. There is evidence that exists that we cannot hold in the palm of our hands yet is still proof, nonetheless.

For example, think of gravity. I cannot hold gravity in my hand. I cannot touch it, hold it, taste it or smell it. Yet, I cannot fly at my every whim. My evidence that gravity exists is that I am magnetized to the ground. In the same way, I cannot bottle, hold or see the wind, yet there is evidence that it exists by the trees swaying back and forth and leaves blowing about my yard.

In a similar way, how do you know, how can you verify, how can you prove that God made the earth? And is there proof that someone is a good and righteous person? A way to prove they believe in God? Or, how can you say, assert or confirm that it is time to grow your family or that it is time for you to move? You might know that you know yet friends or family say, “How do you know? Show me, let me touch the proof.”

Not all evidence is able to be seen or touched yet you know that what you sense is as real and as palpable as the chair you are sitting on, such as gravity and the wind are real. What can we call this evidence? Faith. “Faith shows the reality of what we hope for; it is the evidence of things we cannot see” (Hebrews‬ ‭11:1‬).‬‬

Faith is real. Though you cannot touch it with your fingers or see it with your eyes, it is a true piece of evidence to God that is as real as gravity and the wind. In fact, faith is necessary to be “good,” to be righteous. It is evidence to God that we believe in Him. The evidence that we believe in God is our faith.  “And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him” (Hebrews‬ ‭11:6‬ ‭NLT‬‬).

How do we understand, how do we know, that the entire universe was formed at God’s command, that what we now see did not come from anything that can be seen? By faith.

How did Noah know to build a large boat to save his family from the flood? And how did God deem him righteous? How did Abraham act upon and obey God by leaving home and going to another land he did not know to receive his inheritance? How is it that Sarah was able to have a child, though she was barren and too old? “She believed!” It was all by faith.

Many believe the proof of their faith is the cross necklace they wear, or the good works they do, the nice things they say or the gifts they give. Though all of these things – gifts, philanthropy, acts of kindness – are good, they do not prove you are good or where your heart is. Though those kind gestures are nice, “it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him”
‭‭(Hebrews‬ ‭11:6‬ ‭NLT‬‬).

While people see your actions and might judge you by those, God sees our hearts and our motivations. He sees the truth. He can see if we have faith in Him or if we put our faith in ourselves, our money or others. He can see if we have love for Him and others, or if we are just out for ourselves, helping those who can help us in return. He can see if our hearts mirror His heart or if our hearts reflect the world’s ways.

To please God, to prove where our hope is, we must have faith in and believe in Him, knowing that He alone is good, and that He is powerful. Faith, though unseen by us, is seen by God. And there is a reward in it.

So, what does this look like for your everyday life?

Do you feel God nudging you? Is He continuing to put something on your heart again and again? Maybe like Sarah, He is telling you to step out into parenthood despite what the world or your career says. Or maybe He is nudging you to move your family though the opinion may be unpopular. Maybe He is giving you a heads-up (wisdom), like He did for Noah, to take measures and make lifestyle changes – as strange as they may seem – to protect and advance your family. Do you sense Him calling you to trust in Him, to put your faith in Him in ways that feel real and hopeful yet seem counterintuitive to what others say?

Though others cannot put their finger on this evidence, though they may not understand your reasons or motivations for deciding things as you are – with God! – God sees your faith. He sees your obedience. Your response to His call is evidence of your faith. It is proof that your heart is with Him, and He will reward your faith. He will reward your family and you (for generations to come!), for putting your hope in Him above and beyond all other things.

Read Hebrews 11 to see just how He rewarded all of the people listed above and so many more amazing stories. You will see that following God requires faith. It requires stepping out into the uncomfortable and the unknown, yet the reward is greater than any you have ever seen or could describe.

Is It Really Over?

When it’s over, is it really over? Or is it just the beginning?

The disciples mourned when Jesus had died. There were so many things they had to mourn. I imagine one was (what felt like) the loss of their ministry. The most important thing they had ever done came to a screeching halt. Could anything be this good again? Anything? But here comes Jesus (resurrected!) with new marching orders, a new call, and continued, deepened purpose:

“Then the eleven disciples left for Galilee, going to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go. When they saw him, they worshiped him—but some of them doubted! Jesus came and told his disciples, ‘I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth. Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age’” (Matthew‬ ‭28:16-20).

Jesus says, I am passing the baton to you. My ministry is not over. It is not over in your lives. I am still in charge. I have not been overthrown. All authority has been given to me on earth and in heaven. And I am passing the baton to you here on the earth. It is yours now, yours to carry out in my name.

What had felt like it had dwindled, even ended – the ministry of the Lord through the disciples – had ramped up and expanded. They would be used in ministry across all nations. What they thought had come to an end was just ramping up, elevating in a new way. Their purpose had been renewed.

Would there be difficulty? Yes. Would there be persecution? Yes. But Jesus also promised to be with them always – all the way to the end. And this promise is good to us as His disciples today.

And so, for you, those of you who are mourning right now, who are concerned for the future of our country, I encourage you (and me) to recognize that the ministry of Jesus is not coming to an end with a national change in leadership. He is still and will forever be on the throne as the King of Kings.

“Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings, who cannot save. When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing. Blessed are those whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the Lord their God” (Psalm 146:3-5).

Though our minds are tired and our adrenal glands fatigued, we must anchor ourselves. We must place our hope in God, the creator, sovereign King of the universe, not in ballots, platforms or electoral processes.

Now is not the time to give up, to throw in the towel. It is time for Christians to move to another level – to grab ahold of the baton, to rise up with boldness, and to speak up. We must go out in the authority of Jesus, introducing people to Him, teaching people of all nations and tribes all He has taught us.

You may want to hide out. You may be crying out. (You aren’t alone.) Yet it is time to step it up, to be bold, to exercise the authority given you in Jesus’ name to make disciples. It isn’t over. Ministry is ramping up in a new way and you have an integral part to play.

As my parents, both coaches, would tell me: Take a moment to cry, then dust yourself off, get back up and keep moving forward. This is no time to back down. It is time to hit refresh and to rise up in love with boldness.

Though it may feel difficult and your emotions might rage against you, I invite you to join me in these coming days in…

1) Sharing Jesus with those around you – through words and actions. He is the only answer to every issue in life. And He is still on the throne over all.

2) Pray for our leaders. The Lord is king over and able to guide even those you do not like. “The king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the Lord; he turns it wherever he will” (Proverbs 21:1).

Where Are You?

Three days until the presidential elections…. It is noisy, it is windy, it is cold and brash out there. Let me ask: Where are you? Do you feel buried deep inside, hiding beneath layers of noise and cold, blowing winds?

Where are you in there? Can you find yourself amongst the noise? Can you hear yourself? Can you hear from the Lord? If not, what is clouding you? What intruder does not belong?

This is a great time for self-examination, to go from a global, national and digital view to a personal, introspective, heart view. Don’t wait. Today is a wonderful time to check in on ourselves, to check in with the Lord, to take inventory and to purge that which is sick and toxic, and to receive cleansing.

What weight or burden are you carrying that is not yours to carry? Are you carrying the anger you’ve picked up by others or by the news? Are you carrying the anxiety that the world, politicians and speakers have inflicted upon you? Are you carrying offense for someone else or shouldering their burden?

I am noticing a lot of layers clouding our hearts, cluttering our Godly desires and our usual outlooks. How have you changed? What have you picked up that is not yours to bare? Where are you inside of there? Are you ready to put the burden down, to relinquish it?

I am asking the Lord to help me, to search me… “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting” (Psalm 139:23-24). Our purity and our peace are worth the search. It is for us and for those whose lives we touch. If you too feel hidden, even trapped, beneath the chaos, join me in this prayer.

Prayer Lord, the world feels like a mess. I feel anxious. I feel irritated. My love, trust and patience for others feels small. It feels threatened. I ask you to remove the sickness, the toxins that have seeped in during the chaos. Remove it. Remove anything in me that is sick, anything that is bad, anything dark or bothersome, in Jesus name. Create in me a clean, pure heart, oh God. Replace darkness with light. Replace doubt and fear with hope and trust in you. Cause your love for others to swell within me, and give me grace for myself during these trying times. May your good and your peace govern me, govern my family, and guard us. I ask you to hem me in before and behind. Hem in my family. You are our protector, our provider, our Lord and friend. I love you, Lord. Make me more like you and less like me, less like this world, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Super Power of Sense

In creating us, God equipped us with numerous senses to help us operate appropriately in every facet of life. These senses give us awareness of what is going on around us in the natural (tangible), the emotional (relational), as well as the possible (logic and reasoning). It is crucial we identify the importance of and place for applying each sense to use them as the superpower each is meant to be. When we apply the wrong sense for a situation, we often find ourselves in a dangerous position.

Let’s explore the senses God has gifted us:

For the natural – those tangible things happening around us in life – God has given us five major senses: sight, hearing, touch, smell, and taste. Each sense serves a different purpose. Yet, each one can bring us awareness, enjoyment, and pain. They can also partner with one another to create heightened awareness, as in the example of enjoying the flavor of food through a combination of taste and smell. Likewise, watching and listening to a person as he or she speaks can help us understand what this person is really trying to communicate.

For the emotional, God gives us a deeper awareness in our hearts, where we can perceive situations in a more sensitive, empathetic way. Sometimes this leads us towards compassion for others. For example, this might lead us to recognize something is wrong with a person without being told. Likewise, our emotions might cause us to burn with anger. It is important to recognize that, unchecked, our emotions can lead astray, creating more alarm than is necessary. This is why you might hear a Christian pray, “Open the eyes of my heart, Lord.”

Without the Lord touching and opening our hearts to see things clearly, to see things as He sees them, we may perceive a person’s words or actions in a wrong way, mistaking love for judgement, kind act for control or take a general statement personally. Without the Lord’s help in perceiving a situation, we might jump to offense. As we have seen throughout history and today still, emotions can be used for good or evil.

For the possible – where we utilize logic and reasoning to think of potential outcomes, both for the positive and the negative – God has given us brains, minds wired and ready to alert us of the possibilities and dangers present now and in the future. By keeping a portfolio of experiences, our brains tell our nervous systems when to run (“fight or flight”) or tell parts of our bodies to hurt so we give attention to that area for mending (pain). Strategic thinking is a gift that, when coupled with emotion, can lead to great success. However, logic and reasoning can be used for bad. For example, if a person possesses mental intelligence but does not pair it with emotional intelligence (from the heart), you might find a disconnected, egotistical person.

With so many senses available to awake or alert us, all of which can be used for good or for bad, it is critical we have a compass. We need a guide to daily, even momentarily, know which sense is appropriate for each specific situation. This helps us to understand where a person is coming from and to understand what threats are real, rather than perceived. It is important we are guided in truth because there is danger in applying the wrong sense for a situation. You do not want to be found in your head for a matter of the heart or found in your emotions for a matter of logic.

Have you ever tried to unpeel an eggshell just by sight? Though it seems like the obvious way to deshell an egg, it is a hot mess. Too quickly, the whole thing can fall apart. Yet, when using your sense of touch to feel the layers, your sense of touch employs your logic and reason (the possible). You then understand what layer is for peeling and what stays. The result is a fully intact egg.

Likewise, if you have ever tried to fish something out of a very small opening – out of the mouth of a bottle or a small drain – you quickly learn that your eyes cannot focus that keenly. If you only use your sight and do not have precision sight, good luck. It requires your sense of touch, partnered with perception (the possible), rather than sight. [Isn’t it strange how sometimes we have to even close our eyes to perceive or calm pain in our bodies?] Another simple example is using your sense of smell rather than your vision to detect a snake in your basement. You need to use your eyes as the nose of a human is not as keen as the sense of smell an animal.

The same is true of how we discern situations. If we use the wrong sense, we might make a mess of things. You don’t want to be found in your head for a matter of the heart or found in your emotions for a matter of logic.

For example, should your daughter come to you broken-hearted, it would not be helpful in that moment to logically explain to her that the boy who dumped her would have likely made a low salary and moved to another city. Using logic instead of heart in that moment would likely cause a breach between your daughter and you, rather than bringing her comfort which creates a bond.

In the same way, we should not be found using logic and reasoning – leaning on our own understanding – when the Lord is trying to speak to us about a matter of the heart. It is important we are found with our hearts available to Him. When the Lord speaks to us, He is usually warning us of something important that will save our lives – most importantly, spiritually, but also physically. Or, He is comforting us, reminding us of His love which alters how we enter a situation or relationship.

Ultimately, we need a mother board directing and guiding our senses so we can use them for good, where we are successful spiritually, relationally, mentally, and physically. This is where a supernatural (spiritual) sense becomes so key.

When we ask Jesus into our life, we are given the most powerful sense of all – a sensitivity to the supernatural (spiritual).

The Holy Spirit, who is God’s Spirit, is deposited in us to guide us until we are in heaven with Him directly. The greatest sense He has given us is His alive, active Spirit in us, who heightens our awareness and directs our attention the right direction at the right time. We are wise to receive and to leave margin in our lives to hear the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit. It might be as simple as sensing, “That is not wise,” as we begin to approach a situation in the wrong way, with the wrong sense.

On our own, without the help of the Lord, we draw conclusions based on limited information and take things wrong, severing opportunities, relationships, even harming our own health. Without Him, we are groping blindly, not knowing which sense to employ in an important, complex situation impacting many.

The Holy Spirit is fully aware of what is going on from every angle. He helps us to see, perceive, feel, and know things our infinite senses, minds, hearts, and eyes cannot perceive. The Lord wants to make this available to us to guide us. He beckons us to rely on Him, to come to Him for wisdom and help to be successful in every facet of life. He offers this, from His love, in order to bless and protect us, as well as those around us.

If you are not a Christian, I encourage you to ask Jesus to come into your life, to be the Lord of your life so that you receive His gift of the Holy Spirit living with you and in you, giving you this supernatural gift of guidance. [If you are interested in learning more, I recommend visiting GraceSTL.org/WhoIsJesus for a quick video and prayer!]

If you are a Christian, you might join me in asking the Lord to help you create margin in your life – quieting the noise from others, pressures, and media – to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit more clearly to protect you and those around you.

Prayer Help us, Lord! Help us to not get lost or betrayed by our senses but to employ them in the appropriate ways for good, for power. We need you to be a success in any area of our lives! Thank you for your willingness and your abundant love towards us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.