You have a choice.

To say these are challenging times feels like an understatement. This has been quite a month, and most feel its gravity, especially compounded with these past 10 months. Today I have something on my heart to share with you that seems best said. You can hear this in my video. More important, though, are the Bible verses I mention within this video.

Only the Lord can help us through these difficult times, and He is able! His track record is solid. We can trust Him. These are foundational truths from the Bible for us to stand on, giving us solid ground on which to place our feet:

1) The One who is in you – God – is greater than the evil in the world, and He has overcome them!

Verse: 1 John 4:4-6

“You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world. They are from the world and therefore speak from the viewpoint of the world, and the world listens to them. We are from God, and whoever knows God listens to us; but whoever is not from God does not listen to us. This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood.”


2) Be at peace. Take heart. Jesus has overcome the world.

Verse: John 16:33 

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” – Jesus


3) Because the Lord is with you and in you, you are free!

Verse: 2 Corinthians 3:17

“Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.”


4) Focus on the Lord. He is sovereign, and He is on His throne above any man or woman.

Verse: Psalm 119:45-47

“I will walk about in freedom, for I have sought out your precepts. I will speak of your statutes before kings and will not be put to shame, for I delight in your commands because I love them.”


5) God always provides a way of escape out of temptation and trouble!

Verse: 1 Corinthians 10:13

“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”


Remember: Though the enemy would like you to believe that your back is against the wall, you always have choices!

Starting Fresh

We all want 2021 to look different. As we prepare to enter 2021, seeking to start afresh, it is important we recognize the power we possess through our own self-management. We are not entirely powerless to that which is happening around us.

Though many things are happening to us, which are out of our control, some are, unknowingly, happening in response to our behaviors, reactions, body language or withdrawal. We have formed defense mechanisms to cope with the shock of 2020. And what we project both influences the way we are perceived and the way we are received by those around us.

As we move into a fresh, new year, with a desire for things to change, a desire to turn over a new leaf, we… you… too must personally discard the things of 2020. You must shed the dead skin – the person you became to defend yourself, or in some cases, to offend others, in response to 2020.

To get your old, healthier self back, or to realize your 2021 self, you will have to relinquish 2020 weapons that illicit 2020 responses as people respond in similar ways to similar behaviors. And, if you notice that numerous people are treating you in a similar fashion, one that you do not like, you may want to take time for self-reflection, as you have power to change what you project and how you are received.

Self-Reflection

• What are you projecting?
• What weapons did you take up in 2020?
• How can you now release them to experience more peace in 2021?

This year will be different, and it starts with each of us. Though some external factors and extenuating circumstances may remain – at least for awhile, we can change our perspective. We can change how we respond or react to people and situations. We can take a moment to pause and breath – some time to sit back and weigh the situation with a right scale. And, as a result of these personal changes, we can experience more peace and healthier relationships in the new year.

I pray for more peace and blessing for you in 2021.

No Cowards

Though I have always loved the Bible, if I’m honest, I was a little afraid to read the book of Revelation. I mean, things get really real in there. It tells us what is next. It also delivers some pretty stern warnings. Would it feel too heavy, too eternal for my finite mind? Would I understand it, know what to make of it? Would I take it out of context? Would my questions exceed others’ willingness to go there? Would I become fixated on what I read?

Well, it turns out, it is very, very good to be fixated on the Bible, if we are obsessed about anything. And more recently, at the encouragement of the pastors I work with, I have begun diving into Revelation. Whereas, before, I had barely dipped my toe in the water.

So far, what I have learned is, it is really, really important we go there… that we dive in, that we strive to understand, that we continue pondering and chewing on it, and continue asking our questions. After all, don’t we want to know what comes next after this life? Don’t we want to know what Jesus says to His bride – the church? We need to know. And it turns out that we gain great confidence in knowing.

Yesterday I read, and reread, and reread Revelation 21. So many things struck me in it — the beauty of the New Jerusalem, when Jesus comes back and inhabits the earth with us; that there will be no need for a tabernacle because God will be here with us, as our ruler; that the light there radiates from Jesus, the Lamb; and we will have no need for night or closed gates.

In all of the beauty and splendor of this chapter, a single word really stood out to me, one that is causing me to wrestle. The word is, “cowardly.”

In Revelation 21: 5-8, God, “He who was seated on the throne,” says,

“’I am making everything new!’ Then he said, ‘Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.’

“He said to me: ‘It is done. I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life. Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children.”

Stunningly beautiful! He then continues and says,

“‘But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.”

What? The cowardly were lumped in with murderers, the sexually immoral, liars and idolaters? It kind of startled me in this day and age that serves up anxiety for every course. As someone who has silently, privately, struggled with anxiety and struggled with taking a bold stance on some seriously hot topics, it really got me thinking…

We must rectify our fears, like we do our sins, before our Father, for the cowardly, like murderers, will not inherit all things from God. They will not receive from the fountain of the water of life or walk streets of gold. Instead, the cowardly – those who lack courage, the spineless – shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone.

Fear is not just a typical symptom of living here. Fear – that which creates cowards, shrinking in the background – is actually our foe. This foe cannot just wound us with a bad day, loneliness or sweaty palms. It cannot just bribe or blackmail us. Fear, the foe that works to attack us daily, carries with it eternal ramification. Fear, which comes from the devil himself, strives to knock us into the lake of fire for eternity.

Fear isn’t just a passive, silent irritant in each of our lives. There is nothing innocent or personal about it. It is our enemy, and it must be fought.

Fear distracts our focus from God. It impacts how we see the world and others. It taints what we think, how we feel, what we say, and how we interact with those around us. Not only is fear an attack that must be managed, it is a distraction – a wall, that keeps us from the good and the Kingdom work we are called by God to do.

I will no longer just manage fear, nor will I make agreements with it. I am removing it and laying it at the altar, the feet of Jesus, and claiming freedom for 2021. Jesus died for my freedom, and I am picking up the forgiveness and healing He gives.

As we prepare for 2021, I want to invite you to join me and others in laying our burdens at the feet of Jesus. This year will be different. This year will be one of freedom in Jesus’ name.

In God’s Will

What is God’s will for your life? “Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

I don’t plan to be miserable. I won’t allow it, in fact. I have been labeled gullible, under-researched or uneducated by the hope I carry. I am aware, researched and educated. (I’ve been doing this media and politics thing professionally for years.) I simply will not allow this world to rob my joy, my hope, or my gratitude. I will not throw my pearls to the swine. The trash situations of this world will not steal the peace Jesus fought for me to have.                       

I will seek joy. I will seek the Lord in prayer – more than any person or source. I will continue to thank Him, filled with wonder and gratitude for what He has done in my life. This culture will not keep me from giving God the praise He deserves. Joy, prayer, gratitude, hope, wonder, love – always.

I am kept safe in my Father’s arms even as the world quakes, shakes and shutters. My inexplicable hope, peace and confidence comes from Him. I am in Him. I am marked as His. I never did nor do I now belong to the world.

Therefore, we will enjoy Christmas as before… Our children are only this age once. I am only 40 once. This is life. This is my life that God gave me, and I intend on living it as a form of worship to the creator for giving it to me. Live. Joy and peace are available to us in His presence.

A Willing Sacrifice

“I lay down my life that I may take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from my Father” (John 10:17b-18).

For 10 years, I traveled very regularly, primarily to New York City and Chicago. One of my habits was sharing about Jesus’ love with my cab drivers. This made for some interesting conversations. Many of them were encouraging.

I encountered several who thought, or tried to convince me, that their religion and mine had the same God. They would say they even believed in Jesus. It sounded deceivingly similar. Yet, near the end of the conversation, they would work to plant a seed – a very dangerous seed that, if believed, could uproot the truth of who God is, and who Jesus is, in a person… They would say that Jesus only died because God the Father made Him, but that He didn’t want to die. One man told me directly, using scriptures out of context, that Jesus didn’t love me, that He only did what His Father made Him do.

In case you have heard this and have questioned this, or you have experienced this same objection or doubt, I want to share this crucial verse from Jesus Himself: “I lay down my life that I may take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from my Father” (John 10:17b-18).

Jesus laid down His life for you, for us, out of His own willingness, out of LOVE. He chose to do this for us for our healing, our forgiveness, and to make us right with God so we could spend forever together… “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).

It is SO crucial to our peace here on earth, and to our eternity after, that we recognize the truth and depths of Jesus’ love for us. It is also crucial that we are aware that the devil will use scripture out of context to uproot our fundamental beliefs and threaten our eternity. And it is crucial we stay in the Word of God to combat that with the truth of God’s Word! Or, if you are not a Christian, talk with a Christian friend about any of these things (like me)!

Here’s the truth: God loves you! Jesus loves you! Jesus died for you from His love. And there are not multiple ways to the Father, to Heaven. There is only one way to the Father, to Heaven, and that is through your faith in Jesus Christ as LORD – not as a prophet, teacher, or good person – as Lord. Jesus said, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me” (John 14:6).

Jesus loves us so, so much, you guys. He dotes on you – no matter where you are or where you have been. He wants to spend eternity with you. After all, He created you out of His love and desire to spend time with you – together, in fact! He has changed my life, and I cannot keep quiet about what He can do. He is so, so good!

I want to encourage you that Jesus’ love for you is real. He willingly laid His life down for you because He wants to spend eternity with you. I encourage you to ask Him about His love for you today. Praying is just a conversation with God, and the Bible tells us that He is attentive to our cry: “This poor man called, and the Lord heard him; he saved him out of all his troubles” (Psalm 34:6). He is near, and He wants to save you from any trouble because of His vast and infinite love for you!

I know I cannot live a day without Him, yet His love is more than enough for every need in my life! I pray the truth of His love permeates your heart and mind today, in Jesus’ name.

Before the World Was Plastic

Once upon a time, there was no Facebook or Twitter.
Blogs were called news, offered by professionals, and the professionals were still professional, sharing facts and balance, weighing each angle, scouring for truth for truth’s sake.

Once upon a time, people took the time to know one another, to look beyond a persona, beyond the brand, beyond what they could get out of the other.

Once upon a time, knowing a person meant more than perusing their page. It meant observing their words, expressions, gestures, and the level of their warmth, knowing they were offered just for you in that moment. It was face to face and voice to voice. And so,
in those days, we actually did know someone. Rather than being artificially intelligent, feigning knowledge, we took the time, respect, and care to learn.

In those times, it was normal to be in a room with another person having a face-to-face, audible conversation. The exchange of feelings and ideas was captured in real time without a camera for playback or for the world to see. It was just for you. People thought more of others’ feelings and more of God’s view than the perception of their brand. They feared God more than public opinion. No meant no and yes meant yes. People said what they meant and stood by what they said.

Once upon a time, truth was what actually happened, not just what you could prove by the evidence that surfaced, or opinions repurposed through varying lenses lilted for one’s benefit. In those times, people apologized face to face, not through lawyers or news outlets. And when we communicated, it was for the benefit of the reader or listener, considering their feelings rather than
just the gratification of purging our own.

But that was once upon a time – wasn’t it? – before the world became plastic and manufactured. When that time was, I do not know, yet it is worth investigating how to find it again… for there is beauty in relationship, purity in truth and welfare in empathy.

And though the world has become eroded by man, and reconstructed by artificial parts and fictitious truth, each of us is real – flesh and bone, knit together by its original creator. We are authentic beings, made in the image of a loving, living, creative God, who is love … who is truth. Inside, we have a heart, fashioned like His, made by Him, but we need help finding our way back.

Thankfully, He is here – Immanuel, God with us. Today He says, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh” (Ezekiel 36:26).

God, Help us. Help me. I don’t want to be plastic or stone, artificial or fictitious. I want to be as you created me to be – full of love and truth, full of your Spirit. Help me to be as you have designed me to be, not as this plastic world has worked to fashion. I recommit myself to you today, the creator and king of the world.

Intangible Evidence

Evidence attests to, documents, supports and reinforces the validity of a claim or an assertion. Evidence verifies and confirms the validity of a proposition or a belief. Evidence is concrete. It proves a claim.

We want to see, feel, and touch evidence to believe it exists in order to believe there is a corresponding outcome. Yet, some evidence exists, is real, confirms and validates a true and actual outcome that we cannot see, feel, or touch. There is evidence that exists that we cannot hold in the palm of our hands yet is still proof, nonetheless.

For example, think of gravity. I cannot hold gravity in my hand. I cannot touch it, hold it, taste it or smell it. Yet, I cannot fly at my every whim. My evidence that gravity exists is that I am magnetized to the ground. In the same way, I cannot bottle, hold or see the wind, yet there is evidence that it exists by the trees swaying back and forth and leaves blowing about my yard.

In a similar way, how do you know, how can you verify, how can you prove that God made the earth? And is there proof that someone is a good and righteous person? A way to prove they believe in God? Or, how can you say, assert or confirm that it is time to grow your family or that it is time for you to move? You might know that you know yet friends or family say, “How do you know? Show me, let me touch the proof.”

Not all evidence is able to be seen or touched yet you know that what you sense is as real and as palpable as the chair you are sitting on, such as gravity and the wind are real. What can we call this evidence? Faith. “Faith shows the reality of what we hope for; it is the evidence of things we cannot see” (Hebrews‬ ‭11:1‬).‬‬

Faith is real. Though you cannot touch it with your fingers or see it with your eyes, it is a true piece of evidence to God that is as real as gravity and the wind. In fact, faith is necessary to be “good,” to be righteous. It is evidence to God that we believe in Him. The evidence that we believe in God is our faith.  “And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him” (Hebrews‬ ‭11:6‬ ‭NLT‬‬).

How do we understand, how do we know, that the entire universe was formed at God’s command, that what we now see did not come from anything that can be seen? By faith.

How did Noah know to build a large boat to save his family from the flood? And how did God deem him righteous? How did Abraham act upon and obey God by leaving home and going to another land he did not know to receive his inheritance? How is it that Sarah was able to have a child, though she was barren and too old? “She believed!” It was all by faith.

Many believe the proof of their faith is the cross necklace they wear, or the good works they do, the nice things they say or the gifts they give. Though all of these things – gifts, philanthropy, acts of kindness – are good, they do not prove you are good or where your heart is. Though those kind gestures are nice, “it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him”
‭‭(Hebrews‬ ‭11:6‬ ‭NLT‬‬).

While people see your actions and might judge you by those, God sees our hearts and our motivations. He sees the truth. He can see if we have faith in Him or if we put our faith in ourselves, our money or others. He can see if we have love for Him and others, or if we are just out for ourselves, helping those who can help us in return. He can see if our hearts mirror His heart or if our hearts reflect the world’s ways.

To please God, to prove where our hope is, we must have faith in and believe in Him, knowing that He alone is good, and that He is powerful. Faith, though unseen by us, is seen by God. And there is a reward in it.

So, what does this look like for your everyday life?

Do you feel God nudging you? Is He continuing to put something on your heart again and again? Maybe like Sarah, He is telling you to step out into parenthood despite what the world or your career says. Or maybe He is nudging you to move your family though the opinion may be unpopular. Maybe He is giving you a heads-up (wisdom), like He did for Noah, to take measures and make lifestyle changes – as strange as they may seem – to protect and advance your family. Do you sense Him calling you to trust in Him, to put your faith in Him in ways that feel real and hopeful yet seem counterintuitive to what others say?

Though others cannot put their finger on this evidence, though they may not understand your reasons or motivations for deciding things as you are – with God! – God sees your faith. He sees your obedience. Your response to His call is evidence of your faith. It is proof that your heart is with Him, and He will reward your faith. He will reward your family and you (for generations to come!), for putting your hope in Him above and beyond all other things.

Read Hebrews 11 to see just how He rewarded all of the people listed above and so many more amazing stories. You will see that following God requires faith. It requires stepping out into the uncomfortable and the unknown, yet the reward is greater than any you have ever seen or could describe.

Is It Really Over?

When it’s over, is it really over? Or is it just the beginning?

The disciples mourned when Jesus had died. There were so many things they had to mourn. I imagine one was (what felt like) the loss of their ministry. The most important thing they had ever done came to a screeching halt. Could anything be this good again? Anything? But here comes Jesus (resurrected!) with new marching orders, a new call, and continued, deepened purpose:

“Then the eleven disciples left for Galilee, going to the mountain where Jesus had told them to go. When they saw him, they worshiped him—but some of them doubted! Jesus came and told his disciples, ‘I have been given all authority in heaven and on earth. Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Teach these new disciples to obey all the commands I have given you. And be sure of this: I am with you always, even to the end of the age’” (Matthew‬ ‭28:16-20).

Jesus says, I am passing the baton to you. My ministry is not over. It is not over in your lives. I am still in charge. I have not been overthrown. All authority has been given to me on earth and in heaven. And I am passing the baton to you here on the earth. It is yours now, yours to carry out in my name.

What had felt like it had dwindled, even ended – the ministry of the Lord through the disciples – had ramped up and expanded. They would be used in ministry across all nations. What they thought had come to an end was just ramping up, elevating in a new way. Their purpose had been renewed.

Would there be difficulty? Yes. Would there be persecution? Yes. But Jesus also promised to be with them always – all the way to the end. And this promise is good to us as His disciples today.

And so, for you, those of you who are mourning right now, who are concerned for the future of our country, I encourage you (and me) to recognize that the ministry of Jesus is not coming to an end with a national change in leadership. He is still and will forever be on the throne as the King of Kings.

“Do not put your trust in princes, in human beings, who cannot save. When their spirit departs, they return to the ground; on that very day their plans come to nothing. Blessed are those whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the Lord their God” (Psalm 146:3-5).

Though our minds are tired and our adrenal glands fatigued, we must anchor ourselves. We must place our hope in God, the creator, sovereign King of the universe, not in ballots, platforms or electoral processes.

Now is not the time to give up, to throw in the towel. It is time for Christians to move to another level – to grab ahold of the baton, to rise up with boldness, and to speak up. We must go out in the authority of Jesus, introducing people to Him, teaching people of all nations and tribes all He has taught us.

You may want to hide out. You may be crying out. (You aren’t alone.) Yet it is time to step it up, to be bold, to exercise the authority given you in Jesus’ name to make disciples. It isn’t over. Ministry is ramping up in a new way and you have an integral part to play.

As my parents, both coaches, would tell me: Take a moment to cry, then dust yourself off, get back up and keep moving forward. This is no time to back down. It is time to hit refresh and to rise up in love with boldness.

Though it may feel difficult and your emotions might rage against you, I invite you to join me in these coming days in…

1) Sharing Jesus with those around you – through words and actions. He is the only answer to every issue in life. And He is still on the throne over all.

2) Pray for our leaders. The Lord is king over and able to guide even those you do not like. “The king’s heart is a stream of water in the hand of the Lord; he turns it wherever he will” (Proverbs 21:1).

Where Are You?

Three days until the presidential elections…. It is noisy, it is windy, it is cold and brash out there. Let me ask: Where are you? Do you feel buried deep inside, hiding beneath layers of noise and cold, blowing winds?

Where are you in there? Can you find yourself amongst the noise? Can you hear yourself? Can you hear from the Lord? If not, what is clouding you? What intruder does not belong?

This is a great time for self-examination, to go from a global, national and digital view to a personal, introspective, heart view. Don’t wait. Today is a wonderful time to check in on ourselves, to check in with the Lord, to take inventory and to purge that which is sick and toxic, and to receive cleansing.

What weight or burden are you carrying that is not yours to carry? Are you carrying the anger you’ve picked up by others or by the news? Are you carrying the anxiety that the world, politicians and speakers have inflicted upon you? Are you carrying offense for someone else or shouldering their burden?

I am noticing a lot of layers clouding our hearts, cluttering our Godly desires and our usual outlooks. How have you changed? What have you picked up that is not yours to bare? Where are you inside of there? Are you ready to put the burden down, to relinquish it?

I am asking the Lord to help me, to search me… “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting” (Psalm 139:23-24). Our purity and our peace are worth the search. It is for us and for those whose lives we touch. If you too feel hidden, even trapped, beneath the chaos, join me in this prayer.

Prayer Lord, the world feels like a mess. I feel anxious. I feel irritated. My love, trust and patience for others feels small. It feels threatened. I ask you to remove the sickness, the toxins that have seeped in during the chaos. Remove it. Remove anything in me that is sick, anything that is bad, anything dark or bothersome, in Jesus name. Create in me a clean, pure heart, oh God. Replace darkness with light. Replace doubt and fear with hope and trust in you. Cause your love for others to swell within me, and give me grace for myself during these trying times. May your good and your peace govern me, govern my family, and guard us. I ask you to hem me in before and behind. Hem in my family. You are our protector, our provider, our Lord and friend. I love you, Lord. Make me more like you and less like me, less like this world, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

The Super Power of Sense

In creating us, God equipped us with numerous senses to help us operate appropriately in every facet of life. These senses give us awareness of what is going on around us in the natural (tangible), the emotional (relational), as well as the possible (logic and reasoning). It is crucial we identify the importance of and place for applying each sense to use them as the superpower each is meant to be. When we apply the wrong sense for a situation, we often find ourselves in a dangerous position.

Let’s explore the senses God has gifted us:

For the natural – those tangible things happening around us in life – God has given us five major senses: sight, hearing, touch, smell, and taste. Each sense serves a different purpose. Yet, each one can bring us awareness, enjoyment, and pain. They can also partner with one another to create heightened awareness, as in the example of enjoying the flavor of food through a combination of taste and smell. Likewise, watching and listening to a person as he or she speaks can help us understand what this person is really trying to communicate.

For the emotional, God gives us a deeper awareness in our hearts, where we can perceive situations in a more sensitive, empathetic way. Sometimes this leads us towards compassion for others. For example, this might lead us to recognize something is wrong with a person without being told. Likewise, our emotions might cause us to burn with anger. It is important to recognize that, unchecked, our emotions can lead astray, creating more alarm than is necessary. This is why you might hear a Christian pray, “Open the eyes of my heart, Lord.”

Without the Lord touching and opening our hearts to see things clearly, to see things as He sees them, we may perceive a person’s words or actions in a wrong way, mistaking love for judgement, kind act for control or take a general statement personally. Without the Lord’s help in perceiving a situation, we might jump to offense. As we have seen throughout history and today still, emotions can be used for good or evil.

For the possible – where we utilize logic and reasoning to think of potential outcomes, both for the positive and the negative – God has given us brains, minds wired and ready to alert us of the possibilities and dangers present now and in the future. By keeping a portfolio of experiences, our brains tell our nervous systems when to run (“fight or flight”) or tell parts of our bodies to hurt so we give attention to that area for mending (pain). Strategic thinking is a gift that, when coupled with emotion, can lead to great success. However, logic and reasoning can be used for bad. For example, if a person possesses mental intelligence but does not pair it with emotional intelligence (from the heart), you might find a disconnected, egotistical person.

With so many senses available to awake or alert us, all of which can be used for good or for bad, it is critical we have a compass. We need a guide to daily, even momentarily, know which sense is appropriate for each specific situation. This helps us to understand where a person is coming from and to understand what threats are real, rather than perceived. It is important we are guided in truth because there is danger in applying the wrong sense for a situation. You do not want to be found in your head for a matter of the heart or found in your emotions for a matter of logic.

Have you ever tried to unpeel an eggshell just by sight? Though it seems like the obvious way to deshell an egg, it is a hot mess. Too quickly, the whole thing can fall apart. Yet, when using your sense of touch to feel the layers, your sense of touch employs your logic and reason (the possible). You then understand what layer is for peeling and what stays. The result is a fully intact egg.

Likewise, if you have ever tried to fish something out of a very small opening – out of the mouth of a bottle or a small drain – you quickly learn that your eyes cannot focus that keenly. If you only use your sight and do not have precision sight, good luck. It requires your sense of touch, partnered with perception (the possible), rather than sight. [Isn’t it strange how sometimes we have to even close our eyes to perceive or calm pain in our bodies?] Another simple example is using your sense of smell rather than your vision to detect a snake in your basement. You need to use your eyes as the nose of a human is not as keen as the sense of smell an animal.

The same is true of how we discern situations. If we use the wrong sense, we might make a mess of things. You don’t want to be found in your head for a matter of the heart or found in your emotions for a matter of logic.

For example, should your daughter come to you broken-hearted, it would not be helpful in that moment to logically explain to her that the boy who dumped her would have likely made a low salary and moved to another city. Using logic instead of heart in that moment would likely cause a breach between your daughter and you, rather than bringing her comfort which creates a bond.

In the same way, we should not be found using logic and reasoning – leaning on our own understanding – when the Lord is trying to speak to us about a matter of the heart. It is important we are found with our hearts available to Him. When the Lord speaks to us, He is usually warning us of something important that will save our lives – most importantly, spiritually, but also physically. Or, He is comforting us, reminding us of His love which alters how we enter a situation or relationship.

Ultimately, we need a mother board directing and guiding our senses so we can use them for good, where we are successful spiritually, relationally, mentally, and physically. This is where a supernatural (spiritual) sense becomes so key.

When we ask Jesus into our life, we are given the most powerful sense of all – a sensitivity to the supernatural (spiritual).

The Holy Spirit, who is God’s Spirit, is deposited in us to guide us until we are in heaven with Him directly. The greatest sense He has given us is His alive, active Spirit in us, who heightens our awareness and directs our attention the right direction at the right time. We are wise to receive and to leave margin in our lives to hear the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit. It might be as simple as sensing, “That is not wise,” as we begin to approach a situation in the wrong way, with the wrong sense.

On our own, without the help of the Lord, we draw conclusions based on limited information and take things wrong, severing opportunities, relationships, even harming our own health. Without Him, we are groping blindly, not knowing which sense to employ in an important, complex situation impacting many.

The Holy Spirit is fully aware of what is going on from every angle. He helps us to see, perceive, feel, and know things our infinite senses, minds, hearts, and eyes cannot perceive. The Lord wants to make this available to us to guide us. He beckons us to rely on Him, to come to Him for wisdom and help to be successful in every facet of life. He offers this, from His love, in order to bless and protect us, as well as those around us.

If you are not a Christian, I encourage you to ask Jesus to come into your life, to be the Lord of your life so that you receive His gift of the Holy Spirit living with you and in you, giving you this supernatural gift of guidance. [If you are interested in learning more, I recommend visiting GraceSTL.org/WhoIsJesus for a quick video and prayer!]

If you are a Christian, you might join me in asking the Lord to help you create margin in your life – quieting the noise from others, pressures, and media – to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit more clearly to protect you and those around you.

Prayer Help us, Lord! Help us to not get lost or betrayed by our senses but to employ them in the appropriate ways for good, for power. We need you to be a success in any area of our lives! Thank you for your willingness and your abundant love towards us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.